Sunday, March 29, 2009

thought about it and figured out how to ask

ok so several weeks ago i asked a question but no one understood it because, i admit, it was hard to follow my train of thought. i really wanted some answers but got none and had not way to fix that because at the time i had done my best to pose the question and after a while i just let it go but recently some things have happened that have really got me wondering and i have figured out a way to make my question less confusing:

first i will start by asking if any of you have made a face as a reaction to what was said but at the time you did not realize that you had made any face at all, it was just an unconscious thing?
so here goes. hope you can follow this better. i must start out by intorducing the key characters (names have been changed to protect the identity of those involved).
Bob: kinda weird in a creapy way
Joe: main dude that might or might not be intrested in the main chick
Jane: main chick who may have screwed up everything
Jannet: mutual friend to Jo and Jane
So Joe and Jane always tease eachother thats just how they are and they have fun but also have serious conversations too. well one day Joe texts Jane and they start talking...they talk all day several days-quite literally all day they he wakes her up and then falls asleep on her. the next time Jannet and Jane see eachother Jannet asks Jane whats happening between Jane and Joe because Joe had texted Jannet confiding in her that he wants to break up with his present girlfriend and then asked for Jane's cell number. Jane is slightly flabbergasted because she was being nieve and jstu thought that he was bored and wanted a new friend to talk to while he was at work nad she wasnt. then Joe kinda stops texting Jane even tho she tries to start conversations he kinda just lets it drop or ignores her completely. Jane has no idea what to think and is so confused and slightly angery until she remembers an insident from a couple months back and wonders if Joe keeps remember this and is also very confused.
Previous insident: Joe and Jane were teaseing eachother like always and also (lovingly) making fun of there friends when Bob comes up and says-out ofthe blue-you two should date! Jane made a face that (to her) said you are such a freak and why would you even suggest that? (to anyone else it was just a disgusted face.
Thinking back on this Jane realizes that Joe would see the face and think that it was a reaction to what was said not who said. so now Jane thinks that Joe might think that she is disgusted at the idea of dating him-which is not ture! Joe never went cold to Jane but just kinda stoped texting her.
But now Joe has been doing some things that make Jane think maybe he dosent think that but what the heck i dont get any of this!!!!
So the question is did Jane screw up potentioal things between her and Joe or do you think Joe realizes what that face was meant to say and that she is possibly intrested?
Hope you followed that better-at least enough to give me some input. thanks

1 comment:

  1. it is likely that joe didnt even notice the face, sometimes men dont notice details like that. sounds like jane needs to stop dilllley dallying and make a move. no sense waisting time. just kiss him already! if it turns out he doesnt like her then hopefully he values her friendship enough to still be comfortable.